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7 Ways To Immediately Change Your Life

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If you find yourself feeling unhappy, unfulfilled and maybe just need some changes and expecting better results for your overall well being then maybe it’s time for you to start considering making some changes.


To change your life, you have to change some of your habits. When you develop new habits, your perspective about life changes.


Only then can you find true happiness and fulfillment.


Whatever you want out of life or whatever you want to become, this post is bound to help.


It may not give you all the answers you need right now but applying a few tips from here is a step in the right direction. 


You don’t want to find yourself in the future saying things like “I might have” or “I should have”.


Phrases like these are the saddest things anyone can say and are usually followed by a midlife crisis, an uneventful life or an unwavering bout of regrets when it’s already probably too late.


In this post, I have 7 tips to share with you about how you can change your life to be whatever you want to be in a heartbeat.


It starts with a choice only you can make for yourself. Here goes;


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1. Acknowledge Your Past Mistakes and Learn From Them

Life is basically about choices. The ability to make a choice will determine your reality today.


You are where you are right now because of the choices you have made and it’s definitely okay because we don’t have to have life figured out.


Life is a learning process and don’t let anyone take your bad choices away from you.


Those will be your ammunition for the future ones you are about to make.


The bad choices we’ve made in the past are meant to steer us in the right direction after learning from them.



2. Erase The Idea Of Perfectionism From Your Mind

This is something I have battled with myself because of how passionate I get when it comes to goals and achievements.


Perfect doesn’t exist and once you realize this, you can ease up on yourself and be happier.


Perfection is a wild idealism bound to ruin a healthy state of mind.


Know that you are just enough and be happy with what you have.


You don’t have to lower your standards but set realistic ones for yourself.



3. Make Sure You Have A Great Support System

If you are not being supported by your friends then you have to look for new friends.


Everyone needs a support system; people that will be there for you no matter what and are not afraid to tell you the truth.


Avoid ‘yes people’, have a circle of people that are ready to support your goals and dreams and will encourage you.



4. Think Highly of Yourself  For You Will Only Go As High As You Think

Your mind is where becoming who you want to start from. Limitations and possibilities live there.


It is up to you to decide what part to focus on. If you think you can’t achieve something then there’s a fair chance it won’t happen and vice versa.


Fill your mind with positive thoughts so that you can attract positive things.


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5. Face Your Fears And Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Ever heard that saying that goes like “Everything you want is outside your comfort zone?”


So what are you going to do about it? Your wants won’t come to you. If you desire them that much, you have to go for it.


Nothing bad can come out of it. You either win something or learn from it. It’s honestly not that hard.



6. Don’t Be Afraid To Try New Things

Bring excitement into your life by trying out things you’d really not want to. Be an adventurous thrill seeker.


To really understand what I mean, look at Will Smith’s Instagram account. He is LIVING while millions of people watch.


Go mountain climbing, deep diving, bungee jumping e.t.c.


The adrenaline pumps you get from these activities fill you with bursts of energy which makes you realize you can do anything.



7. Go For A Social Media Detox

Take some days off social media. Do it for your mental health.


It’s hard not to fall into the trap of comparison and that’s what social media does.


Step away from it, watch the news and some documentaries instead.


That’s where you’ll learn how people really live because no one is going to post their bad times on social media.


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  • mylifeingreens
    August 22, 2018

    This is another interesting post. I always encourage people to get off of social media and go out there to experience real life. I’ve had the best experiences in life, met the most amazing people and made lots of beautiful memories while travelling and exploring nature.


  • Cielo Fronteras
    September 3, 2018

    Thanks for sharing this inspiring post. =)

    – Cielo
    Mermaid in Heels

  • Maria Von Losch
    August 24, 2018

    Great advice on ways to improve yourself! xo, M

    • Ray Amaari
      September 3, 2018


  • Shannon Seaback
    August 24, 2018

    “You are where you are right now because of the choices you have made and it’s okay.”
    I love that for so many reasons. Often times I find myself realizing why the cruddy thing that happened to me was actually a good thing in the long run. I’m now so thankful whenever a roadblock presents itself because I know a good thing is about to happen! Love your blog!!
    xoxo SHANNON


    • Ray Amaari
      September 3, 2018

      Thanks for the insightful comment Shannon!

  • The Exclusive Beauty Diary
    August 24, 2018

    Such a beautiful post! I really enjoy reading it and completely agree with all of our advice for changing life! Also I really love your recommendation of books, they all seems very interesting! I need to check them.


    • Ray Amaari
      September 3, 2018

      Thanks !!

  • Jessica
    August 28, 2018

    Great read dear, and I couldn’t agree more, especially on getting rid of perfectionism. Many times, we want to be flawless, when the truth of the matter is, it simply puts too much pressure on our lives.

    Jessica | notjessfashion.com

    • Ray Amaari
      September 3, 2018

      Exactly, we could do so much better without these kinds of pressure.

  • Mma
    July 5, 2019

    SocialDetox has always been my way out anytime I feel overwhelmed 😆
    Thanks for this wonderful post
    I love it ❤️

    • Ray
      July 26, 2019

      Social detox is very important to maintain your peace of mind.